As a man, I love and I could go as far as say that I’m addicted to eye candy and tumblr caters to male gaze like I couldn’t think it was possible.
Yet I know a minefield when I see one. All the battles I have won or lost in my life start in my mind so I have learned to appreciate my limits and I know indulging in fantasy is simply a waste of energy.
I have learned early in life to recognize envy and jealousy, but sometimes like everyone else I get caught up into wishing instead of being grateful. I know it’s all about being lit up inside oneself and accepting oneself and loving oneself but man this world around us…